For another taste of those, there's this:
That's the title of a NYT editorial written by some HarperCollins functionary. Here's a part of her concluding graf:Motherhood Isn’t Sacrifice, It’s Selfishness
...If we start referring to motherhood as the beautiful, messy privilege that it is, and to tending to our children as the most loving yet selfish thing we do,...
I do not think that word means what you think it does.